Sex Worker Advice · Uncategorized

Figuring out which is the right porn for you

I actually love porn. As someone who is a feminist I know it can be surprising to hear how much I love porn, especially when I know there is some harm associated with pornography. Porn can influence our perceptions of "normal bodies" and what "normal sex" looks like.  I can acknowledge that porn can have… Continue reading Figuring out which is the right porn for you

anal · Sex Tips · Uncategorized

Anal Fun Doesn’t Have To Be Penetration

I bet you always thought anal sex was when you penetrate the anus huh? Sex in general doesn't have to prescribe to the old notion of sex being the act of being penetrated. Sex is pretty much anything that feels sexual. How YOU choose to define sex might be an evolving definition, your sexual interests may… Continue reading Anal Fun Doesn’t Have To Be Penetration

Opinion Pieces · Personal Posts · Sex Tips · Uncategorized

Sex isn’t always Penetration

Sex in general doesn't have to prescribe to the old notion of sex being the act of being penetrated. Sex is pretty much anything that feels sexual. How YOU choose to define sex might be an evolving definition, your sexual interests may change over time, and that’s okay. What does “sexual activity?” mean? Sexual activity is… Continue reading Sex isn’t always Penetration

Body Positivity/Self Care · Personal Posts · Uncategorized

Your Vulva is normal, you should love it

For anyone with a vulva, we have been conditioned to strive for the perfect vulva. So of course we have all at point or another questioned if our vagina and vulva are “normal”. We worry about our smell, if we should shave or not, and even stress over the normal vaginal discharge. Society  and pop culture lives to making fun… Continue reading Your Vulva is normal, you should love it

Body Positivity/Self Care · Opinion Pieces · Personal Posts · Uncategorized

I’m not saying thin people can’t be body positive, but……

While I support everyone on their quest for self love and body acceptance, there’s a lot of room for improvement. If you go into the body positive hashtag on any social media platform you'll see thin, white, conventionally attractive people are getting the most attention. It’s pretty ironic that the faces of a movement based on… Continue reading I’m not saying thin people can’t be body positive, but……

oral sex · Sex Tips · Uncategorized

Deep Throating: Tips from a wanna be sword swallower

The process of swallowing a sword involves more than just lining everything up and letting gravity do its thing. In order to successfully swallow a sword, a performer must learn to relax muscles that are typically not under voluntary control, such as the upper and lower esophageal sphincters and the muscles of the esophagus. All while making it look… Continue reading Deep Throating: Tips from a wanna be sword swallower