Massage Touch Tips (AKA What the hell do I do with my hands?!)

Giving a quality massage is one of those things that sounds easy to do: Oil ‘em up, rub their body in a way that feels good, bing bang boom. But when you’re actually going to actually give someone a massage, your thought process is probably more along the lines of, “does this even feel good?” Just so you know, even with this great advice, you’re going … Continue reading Massage Touch Tips (AKA What the hell do I do with my hands?!)

Massage- the perfect inexpensive gift

My love language is food and gifts,but I like to think more along the lines of gifting an experience rather then things. Sure, physical gifts are great, but there’s so many reason to give the gift of a specific experience rather then giving physical stuff. Why is giving an experience a great gift? Maybe, you’ve just started dating and it isn’t the time to get … Continue reading Massage- the perfect inexpensive gift

Filthy F*cking Foods for Summer

If you’ve looked at my blog, or attended one of my workshops you’ll see my love of aphrodisiacs. Summer, when temperatures (among other things) start to rise, can be really sexy season. But, I think we can all agree that eating a heavy dinner isn’t  exactly going to put you in the mood. Perhaps that’s why the idea of a summer aphrodisiac is so alluring. Does thinking about … Continue reading Filthy F*cking Foods for Summer

Holiday aphrodisiacs

Typically, an aphrodisiac is defined as a food that causes arousal or enhances sexual desire. Aphrodisiacs have been around for as long as people have been having sex. If there’s a food that has a reputation as a sexual enhancer, people are going to try it. However, do they really work, or is it just a a placebo effect? For instance, you heard oysters can impact your sex … Continue reading Holiday aphrodisiacs

10 items to make your bedroom sexier

Creating a sexy space is important to sexy times. I talk a lot about it in my guide here. Get rid of the idea that your bedroom is simply for sleeping. Your bedroom, no matter what the size, is also where you are most likely to get busy. If you really want to up your chances of having a great hook up with new or ongoing … Continue reading 10 items to make your bedroom sexier

Dirty Talk Tips

Curious about dirty talk but don’t know why you should care. Read why dirty talk can make hot sex even hotter here. First things first. Anyone who tries something new or unfamiliar is nervous, so step one is simple. Relax. You’re doing this for mutual enjoyment, so if you’re not enjoying talking dirty it might be pointless. Unless you’re into humiliation, then by all means, … Continue reading Dirty Talk Tips

Should I Try Dirty Talk?

Many folks love hearing dirty talk in the bedroom. We can lose ourselves in the heat of passion. It can also help us open up and take on a persona that turns us and helps us lose our inhibitions in the most naughty ways.  Many people think using dirty talk is something that’s reserved for the bedroom only. It can certainly make sex more enjoyable, … Continue reading Should I Try Dirty Talk?