Improve your sex through breath

Being mindful and intentional about breath is one of the easiest (and free!) ways to improve the bedroom experience. It’s also one of the easiest things to overlook. Breathing is something we just do, but when we put conscious effort into it, breath can play a huge part in not just controlling how we deal with stress, but also the sensations that go along with … Continue reading Improve your sex through breath

Give The Gift Of Nudes

Who doesn’t love a good dirty picture? I know I love (consentually) getting a good dirty pic from some cutie I’m dating or even getting to know. First thing to ask yourself is, does the person I’m sending this feel comfortable, better yet, elated to get this sexy picture? I know my inbox get stuffed with unwanted dick pictures. The most annoying part to me … Continue reading Give The Gift Of Nudes

Massage Touch Tips (AKA What the hell do I do with my hands?!)

Giving a quality massage is one of those things that sounds easy to do: Oil ‘em up, rub their body in a way that feels good, bing bang boom. But when you’re actually going to actually give someone a massage, your thought process is probably more along the lines of, “does this even feel good?” Just so you know, even with this great advice, you’re going … Continue reading Massage Touch Tips (AKA What the hell do I do with my hands?!)

Massage- the perfect inexpensive gift

My love language is food and gifts,but I like to think more along the lines of gifting an experience rather then things. Sure, physical gifts are great, but there’s so many reason to give the gift of a specific experience rather then giving physical stuff. Why is giving an experience a great gift? Maybe, you’ve just started dating and it isn’t the time to get … Continue reading Massage- the perfect inexpensive gift

Filthy F*cking Foods for Summer

If you’ve looked at my blog, or attended one of my workshops you’ll see my love of aphrodisiacs. Summer, when temperatures (among other things) start to rise, can be really sexy season. But, I think we can all agree that eating a heavy dinner isn’t  exactly going to put you in the mood. Perhaps that’s why the idea of a summer aphrodisiac is so alluring. Does thinking about … Continue reading Filthy F*cking Foods for Summer

Holiday aphrodisiacs

Typically, an aphrodisiac is defined as a food that causes arousal or enhances sexual desire. Aphrodisiacs have been around for as long as people have been having sex. If there’s a food that has a reputation as a sexual enhancer, people are going to try it. However, do they really work, or is it just a placebo effect? For instance, you heard oysters can impact your sex … Continue reading Holiday aphrodisiacs

10 items to make your bedroom sexier

Creating a sexy space is important to sexy times. I talk a lot about it in my guide here. Get rid of the idea that your bedroom is simply for sleeping. Your bedroom, no matter what the size, is also where you are most likely to get busy. If you really want to up your chances of having a great hook up with new or ongoing … Continue reading 10 items to make your bedroom sexier