Foreplay/Mood Setting, Sex Tips, Uncategorized

Filthy F*cking Foods for Summer

If you've looked at my blog, or attended one of my workshops you'll see my love of aphrodisiacs. Summer, when temperatures (among other things) start to rise, can be really sexy season. But, I think we can all agree that eating a heavy dinner isn’t  exactly going to put you in the mood. Perhaps that’s why the idea… Continue reading Filthy F*cking Foods for Summer

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Holiday aphrodisiacs

Typically, an aphrodisiac is defined as a food that causes arousal or enhances sexual desire. Aphrodisiacs have been around for as long as people have been having sex. If there’s a food that has a reputation as a sexual enhancer, people are going to try it. However, do they really work, or is it just a a placebo… Continue reading Holiday aphrodisiacs

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10 items to make your bedroom sexier

Creating a sexy space is important to sexy times. I talk a lot about it in my guide here. Get rid of the idea that your bedroom is simply for sleeping. Your bedroom, no matter what the size, is also where you are most likely to get busy. If you really want to up your chances… Continue reading 10 items to make your bedroom sexier

Foreplay/Mood Setting, Sex Tips, Uncategorized

Dirty Talk Tips

Curious about dirty talk but don't know why you should care. Read why dirty talk can make hot sex even hotter here. First things first. Anyone who tries something new or unfamiliar is nervous, so step one is simple. Relax. You're doing this for mutual enjoyment, so if you're not enjoying talking dirty it might… Continue reading Dirty Talk Tips

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Should I Try Dirty Talk?

Many folks love hearing dirty talk in the bedroom. We can lose ourselves in the heat of passion. It can also help us open up and take on a persona that turns us and helps us lose our inhibitions in the most naughty ways.  Many people think using dirty talk is something that’s reserved for… Continue reading Should I Try Dirty Talk?

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How to create the perfect sex playlist

Nothing sets or kills the mood more than putting on some music in the bedroom. Music can help you feel comfortable and relaxed while having sex, which is super important. Also pay attention to the words and sounds of your favorite track, it can help you unwind and be present in the moment. Beats per… Continue reading How to create the perfect sex playlist

Foreplay/Mood Setting, Sex Tips, Sex Toys, Uncategorized

Hot Sex Without Melting?

 Actual picture of me I'm fat and always feel extra hot (temperature wise!). So in the summer I feel particularly unsexy. You don't have to be fat to be too hot to get sexy because the heat can drive even the most ambitious person to avoiding intimate body contact. In the heat you're already sweating just… Continue reading Hot Sex Without Melting?

Foreplay/Mood Setting, Sex Worker Advice, Uncategorized

Pheromones. Make Life Sexier

What are pheromones Have you ever found someone particularly sexy without knowing why? It could be that you are lured in by their pheromones, invisible chemical signals that can subtly alter a person’s mood, mindset, or behavior. Pheromones are basically chemicals that are released from our bodies in an effort to elicit a response from… Continue reading Pheromones. Make Life Sexier

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Light my fire. Part Two: Foreplay

Setting the mood and foreplay is an important often overlooked aspect of sex. Increased arousal/lubrication, and intimacy are some key reasons to really sex it up and set the mood and focus on foreplay and everything that happens before the sex happens. Intercourse or orgasms don't even have to be the focus, just be present and enjoy… Continue reading Light my fire. Part Two: Foreplay