Give The Gift Of Nudes

Who doesn’t love a good dirty picture? I know I love (consentually) getting a good dirty pic from some cutie I’m dating or even getting to know. First thing to ask yourself is, does the person I’m sending this feel comfortable, better yet, elated to get this sexy picture? I know my inbox get stuffed with unwanted dick pictures. The most annoying part to me … Continue reading Give The Gift Of Nudes

Femme Daddies?

The first time I called myself daddy, it was more of a joke. The more I let the thought dance around my head the more I liked it. I had identified as a Mommy Domme for a while when I jokingly called myself Daddy. What was it doing to me? Just that one, simple little word. a word I hadn’t even been sure that I liked, … Continue reading Femme Daddies?

How not to be an asshole to your insecure lover

Like I wrote about in previous posts, there are lots of people in the world who don’t fit neatly into societies view of beauty. If you’re not thin, white, straight, and very presenting in your gender, then you might not see yourself represented in beauty magazines, tv, movies, or even social media feeds.  Dating can add all kind of issues when you’re already insecure. So … Continue reading How not to be an asshole to your insecure lover

Having a love affair with yourself

I write a lot about body confidence, but how can you really take care of yourself the way you need? Here are some tips to deal with any insecurities head on and become the most confident pleasured person you can be. Tips to protecting yourself – Not being bothered by harassment will frustrate bullies the most. – Sometimes confronting it head on is really satisfying … Continue reading Having a love affair with yourself

Why is Body Confidence Important?

Why Do We Need Body Confidence? Technically speaking a third of the population is overweight (That’s over a hundred million people) The media loves to make fat people the funny friend, not the sexy friend. Media will also make us seem gross and unlovable Supermarkets try to sell us gross “diet food” full of chemicals Doctors will lecture us about “the fat” When you google … Continue reading Why is Body Confidence Important?