What Would Beyonce Buy? Why Are Luxury Toys Worth It?

I recently taught a workshop about Luxury toys, called what would Beyonce buy. It was a slightly misleading title because at the end of the day what toys Beyonce or any celebrity buys is no ones business but their own and the folks they want to use them with. Myself and other bloggers consentually share this information with the public because there’s no shame in … Continue reading What Would Beyonce Buy? Why Are Luxury Toys Worth It?

Sex Toys Sometimes Break: How To Deal With That Emotionally And How To Care For Them.

Thanks to pop culture, with shows like Sex In The City, Broad City, Transparent, Grace And Frankie, Master Of None, etc, etc, sex toys aren’t the taboo they used to be. The list of shows that sex toys appear in go on and on. In fact, chances are that a large number of the people you know own at least one. But commonality doesn’t necessarily mean … Continue reading Sex Toys Sometimes Break: How To Deal With That Emotionally And How To Care For Them.

Massage Touch Tips (AKA What the hell do I do with my hands?!)

Giving a quality massage is one of those things that sounds easy to do: Oil ‘em up, rub their body in a way that feels good, bing bang boom. But when you’re actually going to actually give someone a massage, your thought process is probably more along the lines of, “does this even feel good?” Just so you know, even with this great advice, you’re going … Continue reading Massage Touch Tips (AKA What the hell do I do with my hands?!)

Massage- the perfect inexpensive gift

My love language is food and gifts,but I like to think more along the lines of gifting an experience rather then things. Sure, physical gifts are great, but there’s so many reason to give the gift of a specific experience rather then giving physical stuff. Why is giving an experience a great gift? Maybe, you’ve just started dating and it isn’t the time to get … Continue reading Massage- the perfect inexpensive gift

Femme Daddies?

The first time I called myself daddy, it was more of a joke. The more I let the thought dance around my head the more I liked it. I had identified as a Mommy Domme for a while when I jokingly called myself Daddy. What was it doing to me? Just that one, simple little word. a word I hadn’t even been sure that I liked, … Continue reading Femme Daddies?

How not to be an asshole to your insecure lover

Like I wrote about in previous posts, there are lots of people in the world who don’t fit neatly into societies view of beauty. If you’re not thin, white, straight, and very presenting in your gender, then you might not see yourself represented in beauty magazines, tv, movies, or even social media feeds.  Dating can add all kind of issues when you’re already insecure. So … Continue reading How not to be an asshole to your insecure lover

Having a love affair with yourself

I write a lot about body confidence, but how can you really take care of yourself the way you need? Here are some tips to deal with any insecurities head on and become the most confident pleasured person you can be. Tips to protecting yourself – Not being bothered by harassment will frustrate bullies the most. – Sometimes confronting it head on is really satisfying … Continue reading Having a love affair with yourself