Give The Gift Of Nudes

Who doesn’t love a good dirty picture? I know I love (consentually) getting a good dirty pic from some cutie I’m dating or even getting to know. First thing to ask yourself is, does the person I’m sending this feel comfortable, better yet, elated to get this sexy picture? I know my inbox get stuffed with unwanted dick pictures. The most annoying part to me … Continue reading Give The Gift Of Nudes

Thinking of buying someone a sex toy for the Holidays?

It’s that time of year when people want to get special gifts for their significant other, their new lover, or hey even themselves. Let’s all keep in mind while visiting your friendly neighborhood adult store… Is the person you’re getting for,going to be comfortable receiving it?  Have you had conversations about trying out sex toys, or do they own sex toys already? Make sure you’re … Continue reading Thinking of buying someone a sex toy for the Holidays?

What Would Beyonce Buy? Why Are Luxury Toys Worth It?

I recently taught a workshop about Luxury toys, called what would Beyonce buy. It was a slightly misleading title because at the end of the day what toys Beyonce or any celebrity buys is no ones business but their own and the folks they want to use them with. Myself and other bloggers consentually share this information with the public because there’s no shame in … Continue reading What Would Beyonce Buy? Why Are Luxury Toys Worth It?

Sex Toys Sometimes Break: How To Deal With That Emotionally And How To Care For Them.

Thanks to pop culture, with shows like Sex In The City, Broad City, Transparent, Grace And Frankie, Master Of None, etc, etc, sex toys aren’t the taboo they used to be. The list of shows that sex toys appear in go on and on. In fact, chances are that a large number of the people you know own at least one. But commonality doesn’t necessarily mean … Continue reading Sex Toys Sometimes Break: How To Deal With That Emotionally And How To Care For Them.

Massage Touch Tips (AKA What the hell do I do with my hands?!)

Giving a quality massage is one of those things that sounds easy to do: Oil ‘em up, rub their body in a way that feels good, bing bang boom. But when you’re actually going to actually give someone a massage, your thought process is probably more along the lines of, “does this even feel good?” Just so you know, even with this great advice, you’re going … Continue reading Massage Touch Tips (AKA What the hell do I do with my hands?!)

Massage- the perfect inexpensive gift

My love language is food and gifts,but I like to think more along the lines of gifting an experience rather then things. Sure, physical gifts are great, but there’s so many reason to give the gift of a specific experience rather then giving physical stuff. Why is giving an experience a great gift? Maybe, you’ve just started dating and it isn’t the time to get … Continue reading Massage- the perfect inexpensive gift

Femme Daddies?

The first time I called myself daddy, it was more of a joke. The more I let the thought dance around my head the more I liked it. I had identified as a Mommy Domme for a while when I jokingly called myself Daddy. What was it doing to me? Just that one, simple little word. a word I hadn’t even been sure that I liked, … Continue reading Femme Daddies?