Improve your sex through breath

Being mindful and intentional about breath is one of the easiest (and free!) ways to improve the bedroom experience. It’s also one of the easiest things to overlook. Breathing is something we just do, but when we put conscious effort into it, breath can play a huge part in not just controlling how we deal with stress, but also the sensations that go along with … Continue reading Improve your sex through breath

Happy Girth Day To All Size Royalty

If you’ve never heard the term size queen, it’s basically a term that is slang for a person, originally a gay person, who prefers their sexual partner(s) to have a larger-than-average penis or sex toy. I prefer to say size royalty to talk about folks who enjoy being penetrated by larger toys or a large penis. It helps include men, women and non-binary people that … Continue reading Happy Girth Day To All Size Royalty

Give The Gift Of Nudes

Who doesn’t love a good dirty picture? I know I love (consentually) getting a good dirty pic from some cutie I’m dating or even getting to know. First thing to ask yourself is, does the person I’m sending this feel comfortable, better yet, elated to get this sexy picture? I know my inbox get stuffed with unwanted dick pictures. The most annoying part to me … Continue reading Give The Gift Of Nudes

Thinking of buying someone a sex toy for the Holidays?

It’s that time of year when people want to get special gifts for their significant other, their new lover, or hey even themselves. Let’s all keep in mind while visiting your friendly neighborhood adult store… Is the person you’re getting for,going to be comfortable receiving it?  Have you had conversations about trying out sex toys, or do they own sex toys already? Make sure you’re … Continue reading Thinking of buying someone a sex toy for the Holidays?

What Would Beyonce Buy? Why Are Luxury Toys Worth It?

I recently taught a workshop about Luxury toys, called what would Beyonce buy. It was a slightly misleading title because at the end of the day what toys Beyonce or any celebrity buys is no ones business but their own and the folks they want to use them with. Myself and other bloggers consentually share this information with the public because there’s no shame in … Continue reading What Would Beyonce Buy? Why Are Luxury Toys Worth It?

Sex Toys Sometimes Break: How To Deal With That Emotionally And How To Care For Them.

Thanks to pop culture, with shows like Sex In The City, Broad City, Transparent, Grace And Frankie, Master Of None, etc, etc, sex toys aren’t the taboo they used to be. The list of shows that sex toys appear in go on and on. In fact, chances are that a large number of the people you know own at least one. But commonality doesn’t necessarily mean … Continue reading Sex Toys Sometimes Break: How To Deal With That Emotionally And How To Care For Them.

Massage Touch Tips (AKA What the hell do I do with my hands?!)

Giving a quality massage is one of those things that sounds easy to do: Oil ‘em up, rub their body in a way that feels good, bing bang boom. But when you’re actually going to actually give someone a massage, your thought process is probably more along the lines of, “does this even feel good?” Just so you know, even with this great advice, you’re going … Continue reading Massage Touch Tips (AKA What the hell do I do with my hands?!)