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Why everyone should go to Exxxotica at least once

This past weekend was the 10th anniversary of Exxxotica in New Jersey. Exxxotica is The Largest Adult Event in the USA Dedicated to Love & Sex. Taking place over three days, EXXXOTICA was created for like-minded adults who are looking to “celebrate sexy”. I received a lot of comments from people on social media saying that I was so… Continue reading Why everyone should go to Exxxotica at least once

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Sex isn’t always Penetration

Sex in general doesn't have to prescribe to the old notion of sex being the act of being penetrated. Sex is pretty much anything that feels sexual. How YOU choose to define sex might be an evolving definition, your sexual interests may change over time, and that’s okay. What does “sexual activity?” mean? Sexual activity is… Continue reading Sex isn’t always Penetration

Body Positivity/Self Care · Opinion Pieces · Personal Posts · Uncategorized

I’m not saying thin people can’t be body positive, but……

While I support everyone on their quest for self love and body acceptance, there’s a lot of room for improvement. If you go into the body positive hashtag on any social media platform you'll see thin, white, conventionally attractive people are getting the most attention. It’s pretty ironic that the faces of a movement based on… Continue reading I’m not saying thin people can’t be body positive, but……

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Why you should pay for your porn

#payforyourporn! But seriously. Who actually pays for porn? However, there is some demographic research on this topic. One study showed that in states that have passed conservative laws about sexuality, residents are more likely to pay for porn—in those states, about five percent of internet users pay for porn.  In a 2009 study, “Red Light States: Who… Continue reading Why you should pay for your porn

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Join The Women’s Orgasms Matter Campaign

Why do we even have to explain why pleasure is important for women When I'm talking about women in this content I am speaking of people who have vaginas (because not all women have vaginas). There is something that people have been doing research on called the "Orgasm Gap" which basically refers to the fact… Continue reading Join The Women’s Orgasms Matter Campaign

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Femme Supremacy: No you won’t make me feel bad for being feminine.

With the release of the new Womanizer Go Product I keep seeing people complain about it. I've heard everything from "women like things other then lipstick", to it's just "not discreet". All valid points, but from a Femme person who loves lipsticks, can't I just think this vibrator is cute and want it? I feel… Continue reading Femme Supremacy: No you won’t make me feel bad for being feminine.

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My advice for moving on after a broken heart

Breaking up sucks. Period. Bottom Line. Now what? Time does indeed heal all wounds. But there are some deeper ways to look at this heavily recited mantra. Don’t give yourself a set amount of time to heal.  Is healing time two months, one year, two years, five years? Is there a particular shame in hurting? In… Continue reading My advice for moving on after a broken heart

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Ode To The Magic Wand

If you know sex toys, or even if you don't you've probably seen the Magic wand. The Hitachi Magic Wand (renamed as Magic Wand Original or simply referred to as Magic Wand) is a plug in vibrating massager, manufactured for relieving tension and relaxing sore muscles. Japanese company Hitachi listed the device for business in the United States… Continue reading Ode To The Magic Wand