Opinion Pieces, Uncategorized

#SoSS Shout our Sh*t Saturday (self care edition)

The best part of being a sexuality blogger is building community. Unfortunately for us, it's hard to promote our writings or events because of the puritanical society we live in. Ads don't get approved on facebook, pictures get removed from instagram, so on and so forth. But because of our supportive community we will not… Continue reading #SoSS Shout our Sh*t Saturday (self care edition)

Opinion Pieces, Personal Posts, Uncategorized

What happened with O.School?

Well What Is O.School? From O.School "We offer the sex ed we all should have had. Through live streams and moderated chats, our Pleasure Professionals will help you overcome shame, heal from trauma, and develop skills to communicate and set boundaries in the pursuit of your sexual pleasure." First of all I never had the… Continue reading What happened with O.School?

Opinion Pieces, Sex Tips, Sex Toys, Uncategorized

The best sex toy for every person!

If it's your first toy, or you're just adding to your collection. This will be your absolute favorite toy. Do you love penetration? How about Vibration? Doesn't matter! You're still going to love this toy. Of course there are the classics new and old that I'm sure you've heard of. The Magic Wand (a personal… Continue reading The best sex toy for every person!

Opinion Pieces, Personal Posts, Uncategorized

But what are you?!

What are you? A question I've had to deal with since I was about 4 or 5 and I embarrassed my grandparents by being much darker then them. I remember someone had said to my grandmother that they didn't know she had a black granddaughter; and in response my grandmother told me to stay out… Continue reading But what are you?!

Opinion Pieces, Uncategorized

Why everyone should go to Exxxotica at least once

This past weekend was the 10th anniversary of Exxxotica in New Jersey. Exxxotica is The Largest Adult Event in the USA Dedicated to Love & Sex. Taking place over three days, EXXXOTICA was created for like-minded adults who are looking to “celebrate sexy”. I received a lot of comments from people on social media saying that I was so… Continue reading Why everyone should go to Exxxotica at least once

Opinion Pieces, Personal Posts, Sex Tips, Uncategorized

Sex isn’t always Penetration

Sex in general doesn't have to prescribe to the old notion of sex being the act of being penetrated. Sex is pretty much anything that feels sexual. How YOU choose to define sex might be an evolving definition, your sexual interests may change over time, and that’s okay. What does “sexual activity?” mean? Sexual activity is… Continue reading Sex isn’t always Penetration

Body Positivity/Self Care, Opinion Pieces, Personal Posts, Uncategorized

I’m not saying thin people can’t be body positive, but……

While I support everyone on their quest for self love and body acceptance, there’s a lot of room for improvement. If you go into the body positive hashtag on any social media platform you'll see thin, white, conventionally attractive people are getting the most attention. It’s pretty ironic that the faces of a movement based on… Continue reading I’m not saying thin people can’t be body positive, but……

Opinion Pieces, Personal Posts, Porn Review, Sex Worker Advice, Uncategorized

Why you should pay for your porn

#payforyourporn! But seriously. Who actually pays for porn? However, there is some demographic research on this topic. One study showed that in states that have passed conservative laws about sexuality, residents are more likely to pay for porn—in those states, about five percent of internet users pay for porn.  In a 2009 study, “Red Light States: Who… Continue reading Why you should pay for your porn

Body Positivity/Self Care, Opinion Pieces, Personal Posts, Solo Play, Uncategorized

Join The Women’s Orgasms Matter Campaign

Why do we even have to explain why pleasure is important for women When I'm talking about women in this content I am speaking of people who have vaginas (because not all women have vaginas). There is something that people have been doing research on called the "Orgasm Gap" which basically refers to the fact… Continue reading Join The Women’s Orgasms Matter Campaign