What are you? A question I've had to deal with since I was about 4 or 5 and I embarrassed my grandparents by being much darker then them. I remember someone had said to my grandmother that they didn't know she had a black granddaughter; and in response my grandmother told me to stay out… Continue reading But what are you?!
This past weekend was the 10th anniversary of Exxxotica in New Jersey. Exxxotica is The Largest Adult Event in the USA Dedicated to Love & Sex. Taking place over three days, EXXXOTICA was created for like-minded adults who are looking to “celebrate sexy”. I received a lot of comments from people on social media saying that I was so… Continue reading Why everyone should go to Exxxotica at least once
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Sex in general doesn't have to prescribe to the old notion of sex being the act of being penetrated. Sex is pretty much anything that feels sexual. How YOU choose to define sex might be an evolving definition, your sexual interests may change over time, and that’s okay. What does “sexual activity?” mean? Sexual activity is… Continue reading Sex isn’t always Penetration
While I support everyone on their quest for self love and body acceptance, there’s a lot of room for improvement. If you go into the body positive hashtag on any social media platform you'll see thin, white, conventionally attractive people are getting the most attention. It’s pretty ironic that the faces of a movement based on… Continue reading I’m not saying thin people can’t be body positive, but……
#payforyourporn! But seriously. Who actually pays for porn? However, there is some demographic research on this topic. One study showed that in states that have passed conservative laws about sexuality, residents are more likely to pay for porn—in those states, about five percent of internet users pay for porn. In a 2009 study, “Red Light States: Who… Continue reading Why you should pay for your porn
Why do we even have to explain why pleasure is important for women When I'm talking about women in this content I am speaking of people who have vaginas (because not all women have vaginas). There is something that people have been doing research on called the "Orgasm Gap" which basically refers to the fact… Continue reading Join The Women’s Orgasms Matter Campaign
Now that it's officially June, it's Pride month. Pride in this current climate has a theme of resistance. I'm fortunate enough to work for a company that not only supports resistance but actively resists. Here is a quote from the Pleasure Chest about why Resistance is important. "Our theme for Pride this year is Resistance… Continue reading #Resist
With the release of the new Womanizer Go Product I keep seeing people complain about it. I've heard everything from "women like things other then lipstick", to it's just "not discreet". All valid points, but from a Femme person who loves lipsticks, can't I just think this vibrator is cute and want it? I feel… Continue reading Femme Supremacy: No you won’t make me feel bad for being feminine.
Breaking up sucks. Period. Bottom Line. Now what? Time does indeed heal all wounds. But there are some deeper ways to look at this heavily recited mantra. Don’t give yourself a set amount of time to heal. Is healing time two months, one year, two years, five years? Is there a particular shame in hurting? In… Continue reading My advice for moving on after a broken heart