Massage Touch Tips (AKA What the hell do I do with my hands?!)

Giving a quality massage is one of those things that sounds easy to do: Oil ‘em up, rub their body in a way that feels good, bing bang boom. But when you’re actually going to actually give someone a massage, your thought process is probably more along the lines of, “does this even feel good?” Just so you know, even with this great advice, you’re going … Continue reading Massage Touch Tips (AKA What the hell do I do with my hands?!)

Femme Daddies?

The first time I called myself daddy, it was more of a joke. The more I let the thought dance around my head the more I liked it. I had identified as a Mommy Domme for a while when I jokingly called myself Daddy. What was it doing to me? Just that one, simple little word. a word I hadn’t even been sure that I liked, … Continue reading Femme Daddies?

How not to be an asshole to your insecure lover

Like I wrote about in previous posts, there are lots of people in the world who don’t fit neatly into societies view of beauty. If you’re not thin, white, straight, and very presenting in your gender, then you might not see yourself represented in beauty magazines, tv, movies, or even social media feeds.  Dating can add all kind of issues when you’re already insecure. So … Continue reading How not to be an asshole to your insecure lover

Having a love affair with yourself

I write a lot about body confidence, but how can you really take care of yourself the way you need? Here are some tips to deal with any insecurities head on and become the most confident pleasured person you can be. Tips to protecting yourself – Not being bothered by harassment will frustrate bullies the most. – Sometimes confronting it head on is really satisfying … Continue reading Having a love affair with yourself

Why is Body Confidence Important?

Why Do We Need Body Confidence? Technically speaking a third of the population is overweight (That’s over a hundred million people) The media loves to make fat people the funny friend, not the sexy friend. Media will also make us seem gross and unlovable Supermarkets try to sell us gross “diet food” full of chemicals Doctors will lecture us about “the fat” When you google … Continue reading Why is Body Confidence Important?

If you’re waiting to lose weight to wear lingerie, read this!!

One of my least favorite things to hear is “I need to lose weight to fit this” I’ve heard it all before. You don’t want to buy that sexy outfit until you’re at least 10, 15, 20+ pounds thinner than you are now. I don’t hate breaking this to you, but there is plenty of lingerie in bigger sizes, click here to see some. And … Continue reading If you’re waiting to lose weight to wear lingerie, read this!!

Your Vulva is normal, you should love it

For anyone with a vulva, we have been conditioned to strive for the perfect vulva. So of course we have all at point or another questioned if our vagina and vulva are “normal”. We worry about our smell, if we should shave or not, and even stress over the normal vaginal discharge. Society  and pop culture lives to making fun of vulvas. Anything from mocking them for being smelly and … Continue reading Your Vulva is normal, you should love it