For anyone with a vulva, we have been conditioned to strive for the perfect vulva. So of course we have all at point or another questioned if our vagina and vulva are “normal”. We worry about our smell, if we should shave or not, and even stress over the normal vaginal discharge. Society and pop culture lives to making fun… Continue reading Your Vulva is normal, you should love it
While I support everyone on their quest for self love and body acceptance, there’s a lot of room for improvement. If you go into the body positive hashtag on any social media platform you'll see thin, white, conventionally attractive people are getting the most attention. It’s pretty ironic that the faces of a movement based on… Continue reading I’m not saying thin people can’t be body positive, but……
Jelly sex toys are the only sex toy thing I will ever say a hard no to. It is the material that most people are familiar with, especially if they are not up to date with sex toy trends. Most toys were made out of jelly rubber, or just rubber in general before people knew… Continue reading Jelly Rubber Bummer
Why do we even have to explain why pleasure is important for women When I'm talking about women in this content I am speaking of people who have vaginas (because not all women have vaginas). There is something that people have been doing research on called the "Orgasm Gap" which basically refers to the fact… Continue reading Join The Women’s Orgasms Matter Campaign
I recently wrote about how important lube is. So now that you know you want lube, what kind should you try? There are benefits for certain types of lubes for specific body parts. Oral sex: flavored lube. One important thing to look out for especially with flavored lubes is glycerin. Glycerin is sugar, even if a… Continue reading A lube for every Occasion. Which is best for you?
Now that it's officially June, it's Pride month. Pride in this current climate has a theme of resistance. I'm fortunate enough to work for a company that not only supports resistance but actively resists. Here is a quote from the Pleasure Chest about why Resistance is important. "Our theme for Pride this year is Resistance… Continue reading #Resist
With the release of the new Womanizer Go Product I keep seeing people complain about it. I've heard everything from "women like things other then lipstick", to it's just "not discreet". All valid points, but from a Femme person who loves lipsticks, can't I just think this vibrator is cute and want it? I feel… Continue reading Femme Supremacy: No you won’t make me feel bad for being feminine.
I work in a sex toy store and the most stigmatized but important item that we sell is lube. People seem to get offended when you ask if they have lube at home to go with their toy but there is no shame in using or enjoying lube. I would say it's the most important… Continue reading Lube: Why Wetter Is Better
If you didn't know, not only am I a powerful Witch but I am also a proud sex worker. I have done everything in the industry from escorting and stripping, to Pro-domme work and Cam modeling. Self care is not only important, but helps prevent burn out. There are some herbs that are really wonderful for… Continue reading Sex Worker Witch: Magic Potions For You
Breaking up sucks. Period. Bottom Line. Now what? Time does indeed heal all wounds. But there are some deeper ways to look at this heavily recited mantra. Don’t give yourself a set amount of time to heal. Is healing time two months, one year, two years, five years? Is there a particular shame in hurting? In… Continue reading My advice for moving on after a broken heart