Like I wrote about in previous posts, there are lots of people in the world who don't fit neatly into societies view of beauty. If you're not thin, white, straight, and very presenting in your gender, then you might not see yourself represented in beauty magazines, tv, movies, or even social media feeds. Dating can… Continue reading How not to be an asshole to your insecure lover
I write a lot about body confidence, but how can you really take care of yourself the way you need? Here are some tips to deal with any insecurities head on and become the most confident pleasured person you can be. Tips to protecting yourself - Not being bothered by harassment will frustrate bullies the… Continue reading Having a love affair with yourself
Why Do We Need Body Confidence? Technically speaking a third of the population is overweight (That's over a hundred million people) The media loves to make fat people the funny friend, not the sexy friend. Media will also make us seem gross and unlovable Supermarkets try to sell us gross “diet food” full of chemicals… Continue reading Why is Body Confidence Important?
One of my least favorite things to hear is "I need to lose weight to fit this" I've heard it all before. You don’t want to buy that sexy outfit until you’re at least 10, 15, 20+ pounds thinner than you are now. I don't hate breaking this to you, but there is plenty of… Continue reading If you’re waiting to lose weight to wear lingerie, read this!!
For anyone with a vulva, we have been conditioned to strive for the perfect vulva. So of course we have all at point or another questioned if our vagina and vulva are “normal”. We worry about our smell, if we should shave or not, and even stress over the normal vaginal discharge. Society and pop culture lives to making fun… Continue reading Your Vulva is normal, you should love it
While I support everyone on their quest for self love and body acceptance, there’s a lot of room for improvement. If you go into the body positive hashtag on any social media platform you'll see thin, white, conventionally attractive people are getting the most attention. It’s pretty ironic that the faces of a movement based on… Continue reading I’m not saying thin people can’t be body positive, but……
Jelly sex toys are the only sex toy thing I will ever say a hard no to. It is the material that most people are familiar with, especially if they are not up to date with sex toy trends. Most toys were made out of jelly rubber, or just rubber in general before people knew… Continue reading Jelly Rubber Bummer
Why do we even have to explain why pleasure is important for women When I'm talking about women in this content I am speaking of people who have vaginas (because not all women have vaginas). There is something that people have been doing research on called the "Orgasm Gap" which basically refers to the fact… Continue reading Join The Women’s Orgasms Matter Campaign
I recently wrote about how important lube is. So now that you know you want lube, what kind should you try? There are benefits for certain types of lubes for specific body parts. Oral sex: flavored lube. One important thing to look out for especially with flavored lubes is glycerin. Glycerin is sugar, even if a… Continue reading A lube for every Occasion. Which is best for you?
Now that it's officially June, it's Pride month. Pride in this current climate has a theme of resistance. I'm fortunate enough to work for a company that not only supports resistance but actively resists. Here is a quote from the Pleasure Chest about why Resistance is important. "Our theme for Pride this year is Resistance… Continue reading #Resist