Sex Worker Advice · Uncategorized

Figuring out which is the right porn for you

I actually love porn. As someone who is a feminist I know it can be surprising to hear how much I love porn, especially when I know there is some harm associated with pornography. Porn can influence our perceptions of "normal bodies" and what "normal sex" looks like.  I can acknowledge that porn can have… Continue reading Figuring out which is the right porn for you

Opinion Pieces · Personal Posts · Sex Tips · Uncategorized

Sex isn’t always Penetration

Sex in general doesn't have to prescribe to the old notion of sex being the act of being penetrated. Sex is pretty much anything that feels sexual. How YOU choose to define sex might be an evolving definition, your sexual interests may change over time, and that’s okay. What does “sexual activity?” mean? Sexual activity is… Continue reading Sex isn’t always Penetration

Body Positivity/Self Care · Personal Posts · Uncategorized

Your Vulva is normal, you should love it

For anyone with a vulva, we have been conditioned to strive for the perfect vulva. So of course we have all at point or another questioned if our vagina and vulva are “normal”. We worry about our smell, if we should shave or not, and even stress over the normal vaginal discharge. Society  and pop culture lives to making fun… Continue reading Your Vulva is normal, you should love it

Body Positivity/Self Care · Opinion Pieces · Personal Posts · Uncategorized

I’m not saying thin people can’t be body positive, but……

While I support everyone on their quest for self love and body acceptance, there’s a lot of room for improvement. If you go into the body positive hashtag on any social media platform you'll see thin, white, conventionally attractive people are getting the most attention. It’s pretty ironic that the faces of a movement based on… Continue reading I’m not saying thin people can’t be body positive, but……

Opinion Pieces · Personal Posts · Porn Review · Sex Worker Advice · Uncategorized

Why you should pay for your porn

#payforyourporn! But seriously. Who actually pays for porn? However, there is some demographic research on this topic. One study showed that in states that have passed conservative laws about sexuality, residents are more likely to pay for porn—in those states, about five percent of internet users pay for porn.  In a 2009 study, “Red Light States: Who… Continue reading Why you should pay for your porn

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Join The Women’s Orgasms Matter Campaign

Why do we even have to explain why pleasure is important for women When I'm talking about women in this content I am speaking of people who have vaginas (because not all women have vaginas). There is something that people have been doing research on called the "Orgasm Gap" which basically refers to the fact… Continue reading Join The Women’s Orgasms Matter Campaign