Opinion Pieces · Uncategorized

Why everyone should go to Exxxotica at least once

This past weekend was the 10th anniversary of Exxxotica in New Jersey. Exxxotica is The Largest Adult Event in the USA Dedicated to Love & Sex. Taking place over three days, EXXXOTICA was created for like-minded adults who are looking to “celebrate sexy”. I received a lot of comments from people on social media saying that I was so… Continue reading Why everyone should go to Exxxotica at least once

Body Positivity/Self Care · Plus Size Lingerie · Uncategorized

If you’re waiting to lose weight to wear lingerie, read this!!

One of my least favorite things to hear is "I need to lose weight to fit this" I've heard it all before. You don’t want to buy that sexy outfit until you’re at least 10, 15, 20+ pounds thinner than you are now. I don't hate breaking this to you, but there is plenty of… Continue reading If you’re waiting to lose weight to wear lingerie, read this!!

Sex Worker Advice · Uncategorized

Figuring out which is the right porn for you

I actually love porn. As someone who is a feminist I know it can be surprising to hear how much I love porn, especially when I know there is some harm associated with pornography. Porn can influence our perceptions of "normal bodies" and what "normal sex" looks like.  I can acknowledge that porn can have… Continue reading Figuring out which is the right porn for you

Opinion Pieces · Personal Posts · Sex Tips · Uncategorized

Sex isn’t always Penetration

Sex in general doesn't have to prescribe to the old notion of sex being the act of being penetrated. Sex is pretty much anything that feels sexual. How YOU choose to define sex might be an evolving definition, your sexual interests may change over time, and that’s okay. What does “sexual activity?” mean? Sexual activity is… Continue reading Sex isn’t always Penetration

Body Positivity/Self Care · Personal Posts · Uncategorized

Your Vulva is normal, you should love it

For anyone with a vulva, we have been conditioned to strive for the perfect vulva. So of course we have all at point or another questioned if our vagina and vulva are “normal”. We worry about our smell, if we should shave or not, and even stress over the normal vaginal discharge. Society  and pop culture lives to making fun… Continue reading Your Vulva is normal, you should love it

Body Positivity/Self Care · Opinion Pieces · Personal Posts · Uncategorized

I’m not saying thin people can’t be body positive, but……

While I support everyone on their quest for self love and body acceptance, there’s a lot of room for improvement. If you go into the body positive hashtag on any social media platform you'll see thin, white, conventionally attractive people are getting the most attention. It’s pretty ironic that the faces of a movement based on… Continue reading I’m not saying thin people can’t be body positive, but……