Be your sexiest self, Body Positivity/Self Care, Uncategorized

How not to be an asshole to your insecure lover

Like I wrote about in previous posts, there are lots of people in the world who don't fit neatly into societies view of beauty. If you're not thin, white, straight, and very presenting in your gender, then you might not see yourself represented in beauty magazines, tv, movies, or even social media feeds.  Dating can… Continue reading How not to be an asshole to your insecure lover

Be your sexiest self, Body Positivity/Self Care, Uncategorized

Having a love affair with yourself

I write a lot about body confidence, but how can you really take care of yourself the way you need? Here are some tips to deal with any insecurities head on and become the most confident pleasured person you can be. Tips to protecting yourself - Not being bothered by harassment will frustrate bullies the… Continue reading Having a love affair with yourself

Be your sexiest self, Body Positivity/Self Care, Uncategorized

Why is Body Confidence Important?

Why Do We Need Body Confidence? Technically speaking a third of the population is overweight (That's over a hundred million people) The media loves to make fat people the funny friend, not the sexy friend. Media will also make us seem gross and unlovable Supermarkets try to sell us gross “diet food” full of chemicals… Continue reading Why is Body Confidence Important?

Opinion Pieces, Uncategorized

#SoSS Shout our Sh*t Saturday (self care edition)

The best part of being a sexuality blogger is building community. Unfortunately for us, it's hard to promote our writings or events because of the puritanical society we live in. Ads don't get approved on facebook, pictures get removed from instagram, so on and so forth. But because of our supportive community we will not… Continue reading #SoSS Shout our Sh*t Saturday (self care edition)

Opinion Pieces, Personal Posts, Uncategorized

What happened with O.School?

Well What Is O.School? From O.School "We offer the sex ed we all should have had. Through live streams and moderated chats, our Pleasure Professionals will help you overcome shame, heal from trauma, and develop skills to communicate and set boundaries in the pursuit of your sexual pleasure." First of all I never had the… Continue reading What happened with O.School?

Opinion Pieces, Sex Tips, Sex Toys, Uncategorized

The best sex toy for every person!

If it's your first toy, or you're just adding to your collection. This will be your absolute favorite toy. Do you love penetration? How about Vibration? Doesn't matter! You're still going to love this toy. Of course there are the classics new and old that I'm sure you've heard of. The Magic Wand (a personal… Continue reading The best sex toy for every person!

Opinion Pieces, Personal Posts, Uncategorized

But what are you?!

What are you? A question I've had to deal with since I was about 4 or 5 and I embarrassed my grandparents by being much darker then them. I remember someone had said to my grandmother that they didn't know she had a black granddaughter; and in response my grandmother told me to stay out… Continue reading But what are you?!

Opinion Pieces, Uncategorized

Why everyone should go to Exxxotica at least once

This past weekend was the 10th anniversary of Exxxotica in New Jersey. Exxxotica is The Largest Adult Event in the USA Dedicated to Love & Sex. Taking place over three days, EXXXOTICA was created for like-minded adults who are looking to “celebrate sexy”. I received a lot of comments from people on social media saying that I was so… Continue reading Why everyone should go to Exxxotica at least once

Body Positivity/Self Care, Plus Size Lingerie, Uncategorized

If you’re waiting to lose weight to wear lingerie, read this!!

One of my least favorite things to hear is "I need to lose weight to fit this" I've heard it all before. You don’t want to buy that sexy outfit until you’re at least 10, 15, 20+ pounds thinner than you are now. I don't hate breaking this to you, but there is plenty of… Continue reading If you’re waiting to lose weight to wear lingerie, read this!!