What are you? A question I've had to deal with since I was about 4 or 5 and I embarrassed my grandparents by being much darker then them. I remember someone had said to my grandmother that they didn't know she had a black granddaughter; and in response my grandmother told me to stay out… Continue reading But what are you?!
This past weekend was the 10th anniversary of Exxxotica in New Jersey. Exxxotica is The Largest Adult Event in the USA Dedicated to Love & Sex. Taking place over three days, EXXXOTICA was created for like-minded adults who are looking to “celebrate sexy”. I received a lot of comments from people on social media saying that I was so… Continue reading Why everyone should go to Exxxotica at least once
One of my least favorite things to hear is "I need to lose weight to fit this" I've heard it all before. You don’t want to buy that sexy outfit until you’re at least 10, 15, 20+ pounds thinner than you are now. I don't hate breaking this to you, but there is plenty of… Continue reading If you’re waiting to lose weight to wear lingerie, read this!!
sex toy reviews can be overwhelming, how do you get through all that information to pick the best toy for you?
So let's say you read my last post (click here if you didn't) and now you know exactly what porn you love and you want more of it, but there isn't a lot of options out there, or you want a specific performer to do this sexy thing for you. Here are some tips on… Continue reading Custom Porn
I actually love porn. As someone who is a feminist I know it can be surprising to hear how much I love porn, especially when I know there is some harm associated with pornography. Porn can influence our perceptions of "normal bodies" and what "normal sex" looks like. I can acknowledge that porn can have… Continue reading Figuring out which is the right porn for you
Sex in general doesn't have to prescribe to the old notion of sex being the act of being penetrated. Sex is pretty much anything that feels sexual. How YOU choose to define sex might be an evolving definition, your sexual interests may change over time, and that’s okay. What does “sexual activity?” mean? Sexual activity is… Continue reading Sex isn’t always Penetration
For anyone with a vulva, we have been conditioned to strive for the perfect vulva. So of course we have all at point or another questioned if our vagina and vulva are “normal”. We worry about our smell, if we should shave or not, and even stress over the normal vaginal discharge. Society and pop culture lives to making fun… Continue reading Your Vulva is normal, you should love it
While I support everyone on their quest for self love and body acceptance, there’s a lot of room for improvement. If you go into the body positive hashtag on any social media platform you'll see thin, white, conventionally attractive people are getting the most attention. It’s pretty ironic that the faces of a movement based on… Continue reading I’m not saying thin people can’t be body positive, but……
When you hear strip club what comes to mind? The places where slutty girls take married men's money. Where the women clearly have low self esteem, or perhaps women that can’t find other jobs or are just too lazy to. Strip clubs are dark, seedy places lacking of hope or any semblance of humanity....... Right? Stop Right… Continue reading Strip Club 101