One of my least favorite things to hear is "I need to lose weight to fit this" I've heard it all before. You don’t want to buy that sexy outfit until you’re at least 10, 15, 20+ pounds thinner than you are now. I don't hate breaking this to you, but there is plenty of… Continue reading If you’re waiting to lose weight to wear lingerie, read this!!
As a Fat Femme I looooooooove lingerie. But it's hard to find things that I like, that also fit. Especially if you're plus sized and not looking for a babydoll! Below are some of my favorite brands in a range of prices. Nothing too expensive here! Unlucky lingerie They have great quality pieces and hard… Continue reading Plus Size Lingerie Brands I Love
Creating your own spells is a great way to personalize the work your doing and tailor it exactly to your needs. Of course, do your research on appropriate crystals, oils, etc that will help you achieve your intended goal. It’s important to understand just what spells are. On a base level, spells are procedures. The… Continue reading Spell work 101
There's nothing more I love then Halloween time. From sweater weather, to scary movies, I just love everything the season has to bring. As I write this I'm eating fall treats and wearing my usual spoopy attire. Check out some toys that really bring the spoop! A little bit of everything Anything from Bad Dragon… Continue reading Bring on the Spoopy!
Having a clear space to just live in and also to create rituals and rid our homes of negativity is so important to living your best life. So step one to clearing your space of negative energy is also just getting rid of things you don't need and literally cleaning your space. So actually cleanse… Continue reading Clearing your space
What is a Patron Deity? A patron is literally defined as a person who gives financial or other support to a person, organization, cause, or activity. A patron deity can be viewed in the same way in terms of support. These are the gods and goddesses that lend you their strength or guidance or inspiration… Continue reading How to discover your Patron Deity
A great way to focus energy and intent is to create a sacred space for love or passion. A love altar is a wonderful space for manifesting desire, passion and adoration in your life. I would start by doing a cleansing ritual for the whole space. Smudging is a popular way to do so. Imagine that… Continue reading Creating a Love Altar
Toys don't have to be a solo endeavor. There are lots of toys marketed to couples, but really any toy that you want to use with a partner is a couples toy. I think the biggest hurdle is partners thinking that toys will replace them. It is a common thing I hear in the sex… Continue reading Don’t be scared of toys