If you’re waiting to lose weight to wear lingerie, read this!!

One of my least favorite things to hear is “I need to lose weight to fit this” I’ve heard it all before. You don’t want to buy that sexy outfit until you’re at least 10, 15, 20+ pounds thinner than you are now. I don’t hate breaking this to you, but there is plenty of lingerie in bigger sizes, click here to see some. And … Continue reading If you’re waiting to lose weight to wear lingerie, read this!!

Plus Size Lingerie Brands I Love

As a Fat Femme I looooooooove lingerie. But it’s hard to find things that I like, that also fit. Especially if you’re plus sized and not looking for a babydoll! Below are some of my favorite brands in a range of prices. Nothing too expensive here! Unlucky lingerie They have great quality pieces and hard to find strappy pieces that actually fit plus size bodies. … Continue reading Plus Size Lingerie Brands I Love

Spell work 101

Creating your own spells is a great way to personalize the work your doing and tailor it exactly to your needs. Of course, do your research on appropriate crystals, oils, etc that will help you achieve your intended goal. It’s important to understand just what spells are. On a base level, spells are procedures. The use of a spell is meant to prepare you for … Continue reading Spell work 101

Bring on the Spoopy!

There’s nothing more I love then Halloween time. From sweater weather, to scary movies, I just love everything the season has to bring. As I write this I’m eating fall treats and wearing my usual spoopy attire. Check out some toys that really bring the spoop! A little bit of everything Anything from Bad Dragon is spooptacular. They have everything from fantasy dildos, to masturbators … Continue reading Bring on the Spoopy!

How to discover your Patron Deity

What is a Patron Deity? A patron is literally defined as a person who gives financial or other support to a person, organization, cause, or activity. A patron deity can be viewed in the same way in terms of support. These are the gods and goddesses that lend you their strength or guidance or inspiration when it’s needed. However it’s not a matter of choosing a patron … Continue reading How to discover your Patron Deity

Creating a Love Altar

A great way to focus energy and intent is to create a sacred space for love or passion. A love altar is a wonderful space for manifesting desire, passion and adoration in your life. I would start by doing a cleansing ritual for the whole space. Smudging is a popular way to do so. Imagine that the smoke is carrying away anxieties and fear about love, … Continue reading Creating a Love Altar